What matters most..
What matters most isn’t about the people whom have crushed your life today, but about the people whom you love most in your life, today, tomorrow and forever. (Never let negative externalities affect you)
It is not about living in your comfort zone and going only to places where everyone loves you. Face it this is not a dream but a reality. Be bold and courageous, you only get to live once. Nobody is going to laugh at you on your death bed.
It isn’t about blaming who stole the last cookie in the cookie jar. It is about ensuring the next batch of the last cookie will not get stolen again. (Solution)
It isn’t about regretting and worrying, it is about looking ahead. Turn your fear to useful energies where you concentrate on changing for the better.
It isn’t about not crying and feeling sadness on things, it is about not letting your emotions stick to you. It is not about rejecting the memory or experience, but accepting it. Learn from it, if not, move on. Your life doesn’t end here.
It is not about regretting or cursing him/her/them/it. It is about forgiving them and most importantly forgiving yourself.
One must see beyond their myopic views on things. Calm yourself down and think of the big picture. It will make the whole picture hell lot easier.
However, it is often easier said then done. Practice makes perfect. Slow down your breathing if it helps. Be aware of your breathing, every breath you take draws you nearer to your deathbed. Use them wisely.
